Protocol

Before you contact me

Read my site carefully.
I have taken great care to make sure my site expresses my interests and personality. Reading it carefully should allow you to determine whether our interests align.

Be clear and honest about your interests BEFORE you contact me.
The more up-front you are about your desires, the better I can assess our compatibility. If I decide that we are indeed a good fit, I will require ample time to organize and prepare your session. Last-minute requests run the risk of not being included.

Contact me only when you are ready to schedule an appointment…
…and remember that we are not in role until we’re in session. Outside of scene, I prefer straight-forward, no-nonsense communication, and to save my spell-casting for when we are actually playing. I am happy to answer questions relating to an appointment, but bear in mind, I am not available for chitchat or off-topic exchanges. If you require extensive consultation or wish to explore a verbal fantasy, consider a phone or webcam session.

Plan ahead.
I require at least two days’ advance notice for booking an appointment. The more lead-time you provide, the more flexibility I’ll have with scheduling.

Be courteous.
Nervousness and lack of experience are acceptable. Bad manners are not.​​

Be 100 percent clear: I do not engage in any act of prostitution.
I do not offer, explicitly or implicitly, any sexual or illegal activities. Any request for such will result in swift termination of our interaction.

Preparing for your session

Physical State

Make sure to drink plenty of fluids and to eat something a couple of hours before you arrive.

Low blood sugar and dehydration can interfere with our time together.

You must not be under the influence of alcohol, drugs, illness, or in an adverse emotional state. Playing under these conditions is unsafe and inappropriate.

Attire

Dress neatly in business casual style. Any items that you decide to bring should be wrapped or carried as discreetly as possible.

Entry, is through a public area so keep that in mind when arriving and carrying your things to the door.

Arrival

Hygiene

I insist on perfect cleanliness in my facility and I demand the same courtesy from you.

I expect you to have a well-scrubbed body (particularly in those hard-to-reach areas), fresh-smelling breath, and clean clothes.

It is perfectly acceptable for you to use part of your scheduled time to freshen up before and/or after our play.

I have an extremely sensitive sense of smell, so refrain from using any fragrances or cologne.

Arrival

When making your final call for directions, listen carefully to my instructions and follow them exactly. Do not loudly repeat the information I give you and never loiter in front of the space. If you are early, there is a cafe nearby.

Follow my instructions carefully! My confirmation system is designed to avoid missed connections and protect your privacy.

Check-in

We will take a few minutes at the beginning of our session to cover any final thoughts or concerns. It is crucial that you inform me before our appointment of any physical conditions you may have (for example, heart condition, asthma, diabetes, back/neck/knee problems).

My Boundaries 🚫

Punctuality

Your punctuality protects our mutual discretion and contributes to good rapport. If you are delayed, an immediate phone call can save you from falling out of favor.

I am not interested in body worship. (though I do enjoy foot worship!), goddess worship, brown showers, strap-on play, smoking, trades, bartering, or selling my personal items. 

I am not available for email chitchat. I expect you to be clear, thorough, and to the point in our communications. Sending numerous poorly written, incomplete emails or attempting to solicit scene descriptions is a disrespectful waste of my time.

I do not allow the use of drugs of any kind including alcohol or poppers in my sessions. I want you fully present during our time together.

My personal life is very full. I am not looking for new friends, personal slaves, or houseboys. I will not engage in any act of battery or prostitution, or activities that risk communicable disease or bodily harm.

Cancellations

I require 48 hours advance notice for cancellations. To avoid forfeiting your deposit, you must reschedule within three weeks. Cancellations with less than 48 hours notice require full compensation for your reserved time. 

I reserve the right to cancel a session at any time if privacy, safety, or health may be compromised, and I expect polite cooperation if I choose to exercise this right. Under such circumstances, I will return any deposit in a timely manner.

Before you arrive (just trying this)

  • I have taken great care to make sure my site expresses my interests and personality. Reading it carefully should allow you to determine whether our interests align.

  • The more up-front you are about your desires, the better I can assess our compatibility. If I decide that we are indeed a good fit, I will require ample time to organize and prepare your session. Last-minute requests run the risk of not being included.

  • …and remember that we are not in role until we’re in session. Outside of scene, I prefer straight-forward, no-nonsense communication, and to save my spell-casting for when we are actually playing. I am happy to answer questions relating to an appointment, but bear in mind, I am not available for chitchat or off-topic exchanges. If you require extensive consultation or wish to explore a verbal fantasy, consider a phone or webcam session.

  • I require at least two days’ advance notice for booking an appointment. The more lead-time you provide, the more flexibility I’ll have with scheduling.

  • Nervousness and lack of experience are acceptable. Bad manners are not.​​

  • I do not offer, explicitly or implicitly, any sexual or illegal activities. Any request for such will result in swift termination of our interaction.